I happened upon this blog last year.  It was originally posted back in 2009 on the Cultural Matters blog by Lisa L. Wynn.  Lisa is an American expat living in Australia.  I found the post interesting enough to review the comments and chime in a couple of times.  I encourage black women to seek out opportunities for love in Australia and New Zealand.  I know people living in both places.  Follow the comments as people are still posting.