Monyetta Can Move On Now That Ne-Yo And Crystal Renay Are Married
Monyetta Can Move On Now That Ne-Yo And Crystal Renay Are Married! I don’t follow gossip sites much but once in a while, something will get my attention by surfing the Internet. I came across this post on Media Take Out about singer Ne-Yo. They report that he and Crystal Renay had a shot-gun wedding over the weekend. Seems Crystal, the new wife is pregnant. We are a pro-marriage blogzine and will always champion marriage as the goal of loving, marriage-minded men and women who are ready to take their love to the final level. But, having seen the episode of Atlanta Exes where the mother of Ne-Yo’s children; Monyetta Shaw is baring her soul to Christina in tears. She was distraught about having had her tubes burned at Ne-Yo’s request (demand if you ask me).
Now Monyetta is left not being able to bear children when she does meet the right man. That is foul Ne-Yo. But it speaks to a woman who accepted the role of baby mama and sacrificed her future for a man who may have had no intentions of marrying her. That is non-committal ladies. Don’t walk away from these type of men — Run as fast as you can! And why didn’t he get a vasectomy if he didn’t want more children?
Monyetta says that she is fine with Ne-Yo’s new love and made the choice to get along with her for the sake of the children. But I know it must feel like a slap in the face. I reality, Monyetta is better off not having married Ne-Yo at the end of the day. Now Monyetta is free to find the real love of her life who will accept her as she is. And she is beautiful. If she can surgically have the procedure reversed great. But she will have to be the one having to have surgery again and Mr. Ne-Yo can go on populating the Earth not being bothered with such things. There is something to be said for courting, marrying and then having children. I am just sorry that Monyetta did not vet Ne-You to make sure that he was a real quality, marriage minded man. Had she done so, she would be wife right now. And even if they divorced, she would have still been Mrs. with her financial security and that of her children set for life. Marriage is also protection for women and Monyetta has no protection other than child support. She deserved so much more than that. After all the sacrificing Monyetta had done, she still thought Ne-Yo would come back to her after sowing a few oats. Didn’t happen. Although Monyetta says that she has moved on and having fun, now she can really move on with her life and that is just what I suggest: Keep it moving!